Episode 105

105: Spirituality, Religion, Wicca, Witchcraft & the Priestess Path: Understanding the Sacred Differences

In this deep and thought-provoking episode of The Spiritual Sanctuary: Wisdom for the Divine Feminine, Bertena explores the powerful differences between spirituality and religion, the truths and misconceptions surrounding Wicca and witchcraft, and the evolving role of the witch versus the priestess in modern spiritual practice.

This episode is designed for seekers, healers, mystics, and curious souls who are exploring their spiritual identity and wondering where they fit on the sacred path.

Topics include:

  • What spirituality really means
  • The role and purpose of religion
  • Why many people are leaving organized religion
  • What Wicca actually is
  • Common myths about witches
  • The history of witchcraft and folk magic
  • The modern witch movement
  • What makes a priestess different from a witch
  • Sacred feminine leadership and devotion
  • Can you be both a witch and a priestess?
  • Creating your own authentic spiritual path

This episode also includes reflection prompts, spiritual insight, and guidance for anyone navigating awakening, healing, intuition, ritual, and Divine Feminine spirituality.

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Transcript

Welcome back to The Spiritual Sanctuary: Wisdom for the Divine Feminine.

I’m Bertena, and today we are diving into a topic that I believe many people are quietly wrestling with internally.

Questions like:

What is the difference between spirituality and religion?

Can someone be spiritual without being religious?

What exactly is Wicca?

Is every witch Wiccan?

What is the difference between a witch and a priestess?

And where do I fit into all of this?

These are important questions because we are living during a time where many people are awakening spiritually, but they may not have language for what they are experiencing.

Some people were raised deeply religious and now feel disconnected from those systems.

Others still love aspects of religion but are craving more personal spiritual experiences.

Some are exploring tarot cards, meditation, moon rituals, energy healing, or goddess spirituality and wondering if that makes them a witch.

Others feel called into sacred leadership, healing, ceremony, or women’s circles and wonder if they are walking a priestess path.

Today, we are going to gently explore all of these paths without judgment, fear, or shame.

This is not about saying one path is better than another.

This is about understanding.

Because when we understand something, we can release fear around it.

And fear has surrounded spirituality, witchcraft, feminine wisdom, and sacred practices for centuries.

So let us begin.

Part One: Spirituality vs Religion

Let’s first talk about spirituality and religion because many people use these words interchangeably, but they are not actually the same thing.

Religion is generally an organized system of beliefs.

It often includes:

Sacred texts

Rules or commandments

Specific doctrines

Rituals

Moral structures

Leadership hierarchies

Community worship

Shared theology

Religion often answers questions such as:

Who is God?

What happens after death?

How should humans behave?

What is considered sacred or sinful?

For many people, religion offers:

Structure

Community

Guidance

Stability

Tradition

Identity

Religion can be beautiful.

Religion has inspired incredible art, compassion, service, prayer, architecture, music, and community care throughout human history.

But religion can also become rigid.

Sometimes people feel disconnected when spiritual experiences become replaced with rules, fear, shame, or control.

This is often where spirituality begins emerging more strongly for people.

Spirituality is more personal.

It is often about direct connection.

Instead of:

“What does the institution say?”

Spirituality asks:

“What is my soul experiencing?”

Spirituality often involves:

Intuition

Meditation

Energy awareness

Personal growth

Sacred connection

Nature

Mysticism

Inner healing

Consciousness

Divine connection

Spirituality tends to focus more on experience than doctrine.

A spiritual person may believe:

The Divine exists in all things

Energy connects everything

The soul continues after death

Intuition is sacred

Nature is holy

The body is sacred

Personal awakening matters

Some spiritual people belong to religions.

Others do not.

Some combine multiple traditions.

Some create deeply personal practices.

And honestly, many people today are somewhere in the middle.

They may still love prayer but also meditate.

They may still believe in God but also work with crystals.

They may attend church while also practicing yoga or tarot.

And that is something important to understand:

Human spirituality has never been as separate as people think.

Throughout history, cultures blended mysticism, healing, ritual, prayer, ancestor connection, herbal wisdom, sacred movement, and divine devotion together.

The separation often came later through systems of control and institutionalization.

Part Two: Why So Many People Are Spiritually Awakening

One reason spirituality has become so popular is because people are craving direct experience again.

They want:

Authenticity

Healing

Connection

Meaning

Sacredness

Community

Emotional truth

Many people are exhausted by constant productivity culture.

They feel spiritually empty.

Disconnected from nature.

Disconnected from themselves.

Disconnected from ritual.

Disconnected from silence.

Disconnected from mystery.

Modern spirituality often becomes a way of returning to the sacred.

People begin exploring:

Meditation

Breathwork

Tarot

Reiki

Somatic healing

Moon rituals

Goddess studies

Yoga

Divination

Energy work

Not because they are evil.

Not because they are trying to rebel.

But because they are searching.

Searching for meaning.

Searching for healing.

Searching for remembrance.

Part Three: What Is Wicca?

Now let’s move into Wicca because this is where confusion often begins.

Wicca is a modern pagan religion.

It was popularized in the mid-:

Wicca generally focuses on:

Nature spirituality

Seasonal celebrations

The Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine

Ritual practice

Magic

Energy

The cycles of the Earth

The Wheel of the Year

Many Wiccans celebrate:

Full moons

New moons

Sabbats like Beltane, Samhain, Yule, and Imbolc

Many Wiccans also honor:

A Goddess

A God

Nature spirits

Sacred elements

One core teaching often associated with Wicca is:

“An it harm none, do what ye will.”

Another commonly discussed idea is the Threefold Law — the belief that energy returns amplified.

But here is something important:

Not all witches are Wiccan.

And not all Wiccans identify as witches.

Wicca is a religion.

Witchcraft is a practice.

Those are not automatically the same thing.

Part Four: What Is a Witch?

The word “witch” carries enormous historical weight.

For centuries, witches were feared, persecuted, demonized, and misunderstood.

Historically, many accused witches were:

Healers

Midwives

Herbalists

Mystics

Outsiders

Independent women

Spiritual practitioners

The witch became a symbol of fear because witches often represented power outside traditional authority structures.

Modern witchcraft is incredibly diverse.

A witch today may practice:

Herbal magic

Candle rituals

Tarot

Astrology

Energy work

Ancestor work

Moon rituals

Folk traditions

Protection practices

Manifestation

Kitchen magic

Some witches are deeply spiritual.

Some are secular.

Some are religious.

Some are atheist.

Some are Wiccan.

Some are Christian witches.

Some are eclectic.

Some focus entirely on nature.

Witchcraft itself is usually about intentional energy and practice.

It often asks:

“How do I work with energy, nature, intuition, ritual, and intention to create transformation?”

At its core, modern witchcraft is often about:

Personal empowerment

Intuition

Healing

Ritual

Sacred connection

Transformation

Part Five: Witch vs Priestess

Now we move into one of my favorite discussions:

The witch versus the priestess.

And I want to say immediately:

A person can absolutely be both.

But there are differences in focus and energy.

The witch is often associated with:

Magic

Transformation

Personal power

Spell work

Energy manipulation

Ritual practice

Folk wisdom

Mysticism

The priestess, however, is often associated more with:

Sacred devotion

Spiritual leadership

Ceremony

Service

Temple work

Divine embodiment

Holding sacred space

Guiding others spiritually

The priestess path is often less about controlling energy and more about channeling sacred presence.

A priestess may:

Lead circles

Hold rituals

Guide healing ceremonies

Teach spiritual wisdom

Work devotionally with goddesses

Serve community

Create sacred containers

Initiate transformation in others

Historically, priestesses existed in many cultures.

They served temples.

Oracles.

Healing sanctuaries.

Mystery schools.

Sacred rites.

Women’s initiation spaces.

They were often spiritual leaders, healers, mediums, and keepers of sacred wisdom.

A witch may ask:

“How do I create transformation?”

A priestess may ask:

“How do I serve the sacred?”

Again — neither is better.

They are simply different archetypal energies.

And many people embody both.

Someone may practice tarot, moon rituals, herbal work, and spell work while also leading ceremonies, mentoring women, teaching sacred wisdom, and holding healing spaces.

That blending is becoming very common in modern spirituality.

Part Six: The Rise of the Modern Priestess

One reason the priestess archetype is returning so strongly right now is because many women are reclaiming spiritual authority.

For centuries, women’s spiritual leadership was often suppressed.

Women were told:

Their intuition was dangerous

Their bodies were sinful

Their emotions were weak

Their spiritual gifts were suspicious

But now many women are remembering.

Remembering:

Their intuition

Their sacred voice

Their connection to nature

Their cyclical wisdom

Their healing gifts

Their spiritual leadership

The modern priestess is not about superiority.

It is not about ego.

It is not about pretending to be perfect.

It is about devotion.

Embodiment.

Integrity.

Compassion.

Service.

And sacred responsibility.

Part Seven: Can You Be Spiritual Without Labels?

Absolutely.

You do not have to label yourself at all.

You do not need permission to meditate.

You do not need permission to pray.

You do not need permission to honor nature.

You do not need permission to explore spirituality.

Some people resonate with:

Mystic

Witch

Priestess

Pagan

Spiritual seeker

Healer

Devotional practitioner

Energy worker

Others resonate with none of those.

And that is okay.

Your spiritual path is deeply personal.

The important thing is discernment.

Integrity.

Compassion.

Grounding.

And remaining connected to your own inner truth.

Reflection Questions for Listeners

I want to leave you with a few questions to journal about after this episode:

What spiritual beliefs genuinely resonate with my soul?

What beliefs were inherited through fear?

Where do I feel spiritually alive?

What sacred practices bring me peace?

Do I crave structure, freedom, devotion, or experience?

What archetype calls to me most strongly right now: mystic, witch, healer, priestess, seeker, oracle, teacher?

And most importantly:

What does the sacred mean to me personally?

Closing

Thank you for joining me today on The Spiritual Sanctuary: Wisdom for the Divine Feminine.

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone exploring their spiritual path.

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Until next time…

May you walk your path with wisdom, discernment, healing, and sacred remembrance.

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Bertena is a spiritual teacher, priestess, and intuitive guide who blends ancient wisdom with grounded, modern insight. She is the creator and host of The Spiritual Sanctuary, a podcast devoted to the Wheel of the Year, Divine Feminine wisdom, goddess traditions, ritual, meditation, and soul-aligned living.

With decades of experience as a college educator and a deep background in spiritual studies, Bertena brings a rare combination of academic depth and embodied spiritual practice to her work. Her teachings weave together seasonal spirituality, priestess paths, somatic awareness, tarot and oracle wisdom, and contemplative ritual—always with an emphasis on empowerment, discernment, and personal sovereignty.

Bertena is the founder of the Ancient Arts of the Priestess Academy, where she offers self-paced courses, seasonal lessons, and immersive spiritual education rooted in the cycles of nature rather than hustle culture. Her work is especially supportive for women seeking a slower, more meaningful spiritual path—one grounded in trust, rest, and inner authority.

Through her podcast, courses, and writings, Bertena invites listeners into a sanctuary space where wisdom is remembered, not rushed, and where spiritual growth unfolds in its own time.

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